In Warner's The Wide, Wide World we find that if we interpret the story as a sort of guide of how to be in the 19th century we can a clearly outlined domestic role for women and a role of the father as the bread winner of the household out in the world trying to scrape together funds but unfortunately not succeeding. In any case both parents are to be highly revered. Ellen is a bright youthful light her mother encourages her to feel optimistic about the world with the idea that with the help of God everything will work out. Ellen’s life has been dominated by time with her mother and she has grown deeply attached to her especially on an emotional level. Her father’s role in her life is not nearly as active this can be contributed to the idea that it was women’s role of the time to be the main force in rearing children of the family.
We can see the roles for women being outlined in the language Mrs. Montgomery uses with Ellen regarding shopping. “…a great deal of skill and experience is necessary for a good shopper…” this is pulled from the context of Ellen trying to convince her mother to let her do the clothing shopping for her, since she is terribly sick. We also can interpret the scene is earlier chapters as a time of gathering things together necessary to be a lady in society. Such things as a proper desk with stationary and clothing mending tool kit of sorts are standard. These things are standard for a woman who stays at home that is or a young lady in common society yet still not actually working.
The text shows an emphasis on how both parents are revered the father’s decisions are final and not to be questioned and Ellen waits one her mother hand and foot, this could be attributed in part because she is so sick, and that Ellen is moved to do whatever she can out of love for her mother. We can see this as the ultimate plan of the first few chapters of this story. “Yes, I should; indeed, mamma, I should like it dearly if I could help you so. Will you let me try, mamma?” This quote is also taking from the scene where Ellen tries to convince her mother. In scenes shortly after Ellen encounters a fatherly figure in the store with no name. The idea that he has no name, appeared suddenly, and is a fatherly type figure makes me want to think of him as hinting at a greater force working in the universe.